This was the first occasion for me to visit a swinger bar. Could a 40 years old man have a fan in the swinger bar?
Basic data
【Place】 Roppongi / Tokyo, Japan
【Category】 Swinger bar（Happening bar）
【Bar’s name】 BAR FACE GoogleMap
※ They only have a Japanese website.
【Fee system】Please check the page at the URL below.
※ This bar accepts customers from foreign countries. You can enter for the same price as locals. You must bring your passport with you when entering the bar.
【Satisfaction/Evaluation】
<Overall satisfaction> ★★★☆☆
Detail
At the online salon I belong to, we had a talk session where we invited a staff member who worked at a swinger bar as a guest. That’s when I became interested in swinger bars. At one point, I thought it would be embarrassing to go to a swinger bar for the first time at my age, but I decided to take the plunge and decided to go to a swinger bar.
Background to choosing the bar
I gathered information from the internet, youtube and from a favorite lady who had been to swinger bars before, and found out the bar “FACE”.
Reception 〜 Entering the bar
It is located in the basement of a building a short distance from Roppongi towards Nishiazabu. The address was as stated on the website, but there was no sign of the bar’s name at the entrance or in front of the door of the building. When I press the ping pong button next to the door, a male staff opened the door and let me enter the bar.
After entering the bar, I receiveed an explanation of the fee system and precautions to be taken in the bar. In particular, there was a detailed lecture on points to be careful of when talking to women, topics that should not be talked about, etc. (For example, if I asked, “Do you come to this kind of place often?” it would be interpreted as “Are you a bitch who likes swinger bars?”, so the bar staff warned me not to say that.) Cell phone were not allowed to bring in, so I left my luggage and cell phone in a locker, and sat at the bar counter. When I entered the bar, the guests were two men and two women, and they were talking one-on-one. According to the staff, it was a gentle-type bar, and basically they don’t allow to play in front of other people.
Conversation with other guests
The other guests who came to the bar got along well with the staff and seemed to be regulars. However, it wasn’t so difficult to get into a conversation, and with the help of the staff, the four of us, male customers, female customers, staff, and myself, chatted about various things for a while. The topics we talked about were youtube videos that I found interesting recently and recommended good boutique hotels. It wasn’t a very deep topic, but I enjoyed it because I could not talk those topics in everyday life.
After that, more and more guests came to the bar, and during my stay there were up to 6 men and 5 women. ( According staff, there weren’t many people there than usual.) By the way, I was wearing my watch, but another customer asked me, “What time is it?” Cell phones are not allowed in the country, and many people these days are checking the time on their phones, so wearing a watch might be a great starting point for a conversation with a woman. (The person who asked me the time was a male customer.)
Had fan…?
How about whether I had fan or not・・・I had!
A Japanese woman, who is about over 20 years old, came into the bar about an hour after I entered, and the staff guided her to sit next to me. I thought it was some good occaision and started talking. The bar staff made the opportunity and said “You two have been talking for a while. How do you think XXX?”. The woman replied “Oh yes, that’s right, I feel like going to room with him.” After that, we happily went to the play room together. The playroom was a small room. Tissues and co*doms were also available. This bar doesn’t seem to have any viewing windows or holes, so it was just normal S*X.
Leaving the bar
When I finished playing and returned to the bar space, it was almost time for the last train. The bar opens late at night, and you are able to stay for the same price, but I decided to go home before last train. While I was there, we were probably the only ones who went to the play room, but by the time I left, there were other pairs who were making out, so I guess the some couples went the room after that. When I said good-bye to the woman I went the room with, she said she would be staying until morning, so I think she may have had another s*x with someone else after that.
Conclusion: Swinger bars can be enjoyed even by a man around 40! If you are interested, please check it out!
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